The boy that broke my heart

The boy that broke my heart I’ve had plenty of boys, even men if you will; break my heart over the years. The first one was probably my father, when I was around nine. I won’t go into details here, because people who know my parents read this, but it’s true, and the hurt was [...]


Credentials, please!

I am often asked what my credentials are. What makes me qualified to be a parenting consultant? What special skills or experience do I have that makes me equipped to tell other people how to parent? I’ll answer those questions in a minute, but first let’s get to another question, which as a society we [...]


Parenting is a Ministry

I touch briefly on this topic in the “about Val” page, but I’d like to expand on it further. When I started my business, one of my core beliefs was that we are all called to ministry. If you are a parent, one of the ministries you have been called to is serving the people [...]


Being the man

I’m going to be throwing out some gender stereotypes here, so everyone prepare to be offended. Lately, in our house, I have gotten to be “the man”. Business is really picking up, and I have been working a lot of hours, including a few weekends. I have to give kudos to my dear hubby, who [...]